Bookish Chat – Why Reading Challenges Don’t Work For Me

December 18, 2017 Bookish chat 14

Confession time today.  I want to share why reading challenges don’t work for me.  At this time of year, I see lots of bookish challenges cropping up on blogs I love.  And my bookish heart wants to support all my blogger friends, and join in all their challenges.  But I have to remind myself to hold back.  Because for me a challenge becomes a must-do, that’s just how my personality works.  And when I make reading a must-do, I inevitably end up digging a book slump for myself.

Why Reading Challenges Don't Work For Me

 

Why Reading Challenges Don’t Work For Me

 

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All The Guilt

Somehow even a challenge that is meant to be fun, and motivate you to read more, just doesn’t work for me.  Instead all I feel is book guilt if I fall behind, and it makes me watch the numbers too closely.  I tend to get too competitive in all areas of my life, and I don’t want books to be another area where I have an eye on a goal post.

I Feel Too Restricted

Instead I want to be free to read as many or as few books as I want.  Maybe I want to rip through all my arcs, or sit down and go a binge reread of all my Harry Potter books.  Or splurge all my cash on a new series, and ignore all the books on my to-read in favour of new haul.  Basically, I want freedom to read what I want, when I want.

Deadlines

My work is dictated my deadlines, and cut off dates.  In no way shape or form, do I want deadlines on my reads.  Obviously ARCs have publication dates, and I do keep those somewhat in mind.  But nothing is set in stone, and my most important question is what book do I feel like reading next.  Not what book must I read next.

I Don’t Want My Reading To Be Stressful

Reading is my constant form of stress-relief, and I guard that fiercely.  So when I see myself thinking maybe I’ll just join this challenge, I haul myself back.  Instead I’ll just keep doing what I’ve always done.  Reading and reviewing whatever book catches my eye, with no limits, no wondering if it fits with a challenge.

Does it help me, is it fun for me?

No and No.  Enough said!

Before you think I’m knocking reading challenges.  I’m not.  They just aren’t my thing.  Even if I feel I’m missing out on a fun blogging activity, I have to learn from previous experiences.  In the long run, they bring me down and I’m preempting that by avoiding them like the plague.

 

Talk To Trish:  Do you join reading challenges?  Have they been positive or negative experiences for you?

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14 Responses to “Bookish Chat – Why Reading Challenges Don’t Work For Me”

  1. Tanya Patrice

    I totally get where you’re coming from – although I like them. For me, I choose it because I want to be challenged – so I have zero expectation of completing it 100%. If I knew that – then it wouldn’t be a challenge to me.
    Tanya Patrice recently posted…19 Things This Week

  2. Angela

    I like reading challenges, but I try to limit myself to only a couple per year. Like you said, I don’t want to get too caught up in them and get competitive and stuff. I like challenges that are longer, like the whole year instead of just a week or two. I try to set TBRs for most of them, but I make sure they’re books I really want to read.

  3. Amber Elise @ Du Livre

    I love the idea of reading challenges but I can never stick too them. Like you said, it feels restricting and sometimes I’m not in the mood to read some sort of book. I like the challenge because of the sense of community, but I haven’t done one since 2015 because I suck at them!
    Amber Elise @ Du Livre recently posted…My Most Anticipated 2018 Releases

  4. Kathryn Trask

    Totally see your points and agree they aren’t for you. I do host one and join in with them. For the first time this year I won’t complete some of the ones I joined. Like you I push myself because I like completing but this year I just feel philosophical about it! So many of the TBR books still sit on my shelf unread. However I did complete some. 2018 will see me join some challenges but ones that don’t tie me down too much. I just like reading and then seeing if the book I read fits any category of a challenge! Sometimes a challenge makes me read a book that otherwise I would have raced the other way from and I end up loving the book.
    Kathryn Trask recently posted…It’s Monday! What Are You Reading?

  5. Kristin T

    Trish…what a great post! I am just like you – I tend to be quite competitive and feel guilty when I don’t complete or finish a challenge. And when I first started blogging, I was signing up for a ton of challenges – I thought they were great – and a great way to read more books and hit different targets. BUT…I’ve learned my lesson…now, I only sign up for a few and really use them more as a tracking tool. If I finish them, great, if not – OH WELL! I don’t put pressure on myself. And it seems each year, I tend to sign up for less and less. I’m still debating whether I’m going to sign up for any in 2018 or if there is some other way I can track what the challenges I am doing this year can give me w/o making me insane 😉

  6. Chrissy

    The only “challenge” I do is the Goodreads Challenge, and that’s mainly to keep track of what I read in a year. I want to join these other challenges, but I’m like you, I don’t like the pressure and restriction.

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